They’re ringing the alarm bell (Metropolitan Athanasios of Lemessos)

You have to understand other people, where they’re coming from, how they act, how they think, what powers they have. In marriage, especially, you have to sit and listen to the other person, and come out of yourself. When someone talks to you and rings the alarm bell in their own way, you should not only listen, but interpret the messages which are hidden behind the words of the other person.